Tips To Stay On Track

Remember, life is neither perfect nor predictable. Various events and circumstances WILL come along to delay or interrupt the achievement of your goals.

We do fall ill, have accidents, become pregnant, our cars break down and others do let us down. And, when we forget or get stressed, we’ll revert to bad or emotional eating. It’s part of the human condition. We’re not perfect either. Once we accept these realities, dealing with setbacks becomes easier and less stressful. Whatever the cause of the delay or setback is, it’s NOT the end of the world, nor is it justification to abandon your goals or beat yourself up. All you do then is make the necessary adjustments to:

Modifying your original goal is NOT FAILURE. Rather, it is a mature and very reasonable response to YOUR life circumstances. After all, these are your goals not someone else’s. The only person you truly have to please, in this context, is yourself.

If your original goal ‘to permanently lose 12 kilos (26 lb) in 6 months’ has to be change to something like:

…it really doesn’t matter; it’s only the numbers we’re arguing about, not the underlying reasons for the goal in the first place. What IS important is the range of health benefits associated with that weight loss – like feeling better, having more energy, lower blood pressure, reduced risks of heart disease, diabetes or cancer.

Because your goal is a ‘permanent’ weight loss, we’re really talking about a life style change, not some temporary drop in weight attempted by the latest fad-diet. History shows that such diets are rarely effective for the majority of the population and certainly not on a permanent basis – despite all the marketing hype and claims to the contrary.

Happy goal-setting. Once you get the hang of it, you’ll never look back.

Ultimate Goal:

‘I want to permanently lose 12 kilos (26 pounds) in body weight by September 200x.’

Intermediate Goals:

‘…to lose an average of 2 kilos (4 pound) per month (i.e. an average of 0.5 kilos (1 pound) per week)’

How:

1. Diet modifications(you should do ALL of these)
   • REDUCE saturated and trans-fat intake (deep fried food, take-away, pizza, chocolate, ice cream etc.)
   • REDUCE intake of simple sugars (soft drinks, lollies, cakes, biscuits, many desserts)
   • REDUCE size of plate AND serving sizes
   • Eat MORE fresh vegetables & fruit (especially as a healthier dessert alternative)
   • Drink MORE water (with meals & as soft drink alternative)
   • Eat 4 to 5 SMALLER & healthier meals per day rather than the 3 traditional larger ones. (Note, your total food or calorie consumption should be the same or even less)
   • Make these changes PERMANENT as opposed to some temporary diet or fad

Note: Reducing is more realistic and achievable than total elimination or abstinence

2. Exercise (select one or more that suits your abilities & circumstances)
   • Brisk walk for a minimum 30 – 45 minute per day, 5 times a week *
   • Aerobic exercise 2 – 3 times per week (swimming*, jogging, aerobics, cycling, aqua-aerobics, etc.)
   • Resistance training 2 – 3 times per week*
   • Core work (Pilates, yoga, smart-ball, etc.) 3 times per week*
   • Play sport (tennis, volleyball, netball, basketball, etc.)

*My favourites because of ongoing knee trouble

3. Measuring / Recording
   • Weight at end of each week
   • Total weight lost to date
   • Waist & other body measurements
   • Clothing size/s
   • Any indicator that is meaningful to you which provides confirmation & reinforcement (e.g. waist/hip ratio (WHR), body mass index (BMI), blood cholesterol, blood sugar, flexibility tests etc.)

Note:

It is an established fact that people who write down their goals are far more successful at achieving them than those who merely think about them.

Once you’ve written down the WHAT (the goal) and the WHEN (the deadline), it’s vital to write down the HOW; the steps, methods and equipment needed or the changes you must make to achieve your goal.

Writing goals down, appears to generate a psychological impetus, especially when the formula set out in the GOAL EXAMPLE is followed. Using this formula allows you to:

It’s vital to write down any new targets to stay on track, in the same way that you need an up-to-date street directory to find your way around an unfamiliar city.

The principles of this formula can be applied to virtually any goal, large or small, you wish to achieve. Bigger or more complex goals just require a little more thought and planning with possibly more intermediate steps. That’s okay too, since life, with all its challenges and achievements, is an ongoing process. Remember the person who wanted to eat an elephant.

Part 1: Goals must be realistic and achievable
Part 2: Goals must be specific and personal to you
Part 3: Goals must be measurable
Part 4: Goals must have a time frame
Part 5: Goals must be written down

Without a deadline,you run the very real risk of failure. You could delay starting or remain unconcerned about interruptions which drag on and on and on…

Of course, there may be legitimate reasons, beyond your control, for delays and interruptions. That’s okay. You simply adjust your target and end-dates accordingly. This too, is part of being realistic and working WITH, rather than against the realities of your personal circumstances.

Just like maps, which detail the towns and distances between your starting and finishing points, it is necessary to break down your ultimate goal into the various intermediate goals. It helps to remember the adage: ‘ How do you eat and elephant? Answer – a bite at a time.’ (See the GOAL EXAMPLE)

Part 1: Goals must be realistic and achievable
Part 2: Goals must be specific and personal to you
Part 3: Goals must be measurable
Part 4: Goals must have a time frame
Part 5: Goals must be written down

If you can’t quantify your goal, how can you assess your progress or when you’ve achieved it?

Your final goal – and the intermediate steps – must be measurable by such things as time, kilos/pounds, centimetres/inches, dress/trouser size, minutes/seconds, etc. or whatever scale is relevant and appropriate.

Part 1: Goals must be realistic and achievable
Part 2: Goals must be specific and personal to you
Part 3: Goals must be measurable
Part 4: Goals must have a time frame
Part 5: Goals must be written down

A goal of stronger, faster or slimmer is too vague to be of real use. To be effective, a goal must be concrete and specific. For example:

• ‘I want to be the ideal weight for my age, height and gender’ (e.g. 74 kg or 160 pounds)
• ‘I want to compete in this year’s local/national marathon’
• ‘I want to be able to play ball with my kids without losing my breath or thinking I’m going to have a heart attack’

Part 1: Goals must be realistic and achievable
Part 2: Goals must be specific and personal to you
Part 3: Goals must be measurable
Part 4: Goals must have a time frame
Part 5: Goals must be written down